Why Perimenopause Makes ADHD So Much Worse for Women

Season #5 Episode #4

 

 

Are you one of the one billion women going through perimenopause?
This inevitable life transition can leave you feeling like a total stranger in your own body — and like you're completely losing your mind.

But you're not.

If you’re a woman with ADHD, perimenopause can make your symptoms more intense, more unpredictable, and far more confusing than anyone warned you about. I know — because I’ve been living it.

In this deeply personal and practical episode of Phenomenally ADHD, I’m sharing what really happens when hormones drop and ADHD ramps up — the signs I missed, the chaos that followed, what helped, and what I wish I knew years earlier.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why ADHD symptoms worsen in perimenopause — and how to recognize it

  • How estrogen and progesterone affect focus, memory, motivation, and emotional regulation

  • The 4 dimensions perimenopause impacts: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual

  • Natural support strategies I tried (and what actually worked for me)

  • Why Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) became a necessary next step

  • How to track your cycle and symptoms in an ADHD-friendly way

Highlights & Key Takeaways:

  • “I felt like a stranger in my own body.”

  • My usual ADHD systems suddenly stopped working — and I thought I was failing

  • Hot flashes hit out of nowhere (and yes, I brought a fan to the mic)

  • Strength training + acupuncture helped more than I expected

  • Accepting this phase instead of resisting it became the most powerful shift

  • You’re not broken. You’re rebuilding.

🎧 Listen if you’re:

  • A woman with ADHD feeling more overwhelmed, foggy, and emotional than usual

  • Wondering if your focus and memory issues are just ADHD — or something more

  • Looking for validation, answers, and relief during this transition

Links mentioned in this episode:

Zarina's list of non-negotiable supplements

Strength (and fun) workout Youtube channel

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